Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 2
(continued from part 1)
I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic – like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
This got me thinking…maybe it’s not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are…
Maybe there’s something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.
First, avoid seeking approval from women. You are toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her and make her like you.
Women will see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting their attention.
You DON’T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn’t rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men‘s clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.
Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself – nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing…
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
Use your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.
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