{"id":6319,"date":"2008-10-15T09:44:58","date_gmt":"2008-10-15T14:44:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/2008\/10\/15\/pickup-artist-fashion-pt-2\/"},"modified":"2008-10-15T09:44:58","modified_gmt":"2008-10-15T14:44:58","slug":"pickup-artist-fashion-pt-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/?p=6319","title":{"rendered":"Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style='italic;' class='uawbyline'>by Vin DiCarlo<\/div>\n<p>(continued from part 1)<\/p>\n<p>I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.<\/p>\n<p>When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.datingtorelating.com\/relating_to_women\" class=\"kblinker\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More about Women &raquo;\">Women<\/a> pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.<\/p>\n<p>When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic &#8211; like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.<\/p>\n<p>This got me thinking&#8230;maybe it&#8217;s not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there&#8217;s something else going on.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.<\/p>\n<p>First, avoid seeking approval from women. You are toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her and make her like you.<\/p>\n<p>Women will see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting their attention.<\/p>\n<p>You DON&#8217;T WANT to look like a pick up artist.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.<\/p>\n<p>However, you don&#8217;t want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.<\/p>\n<p>This comes back to self-expression.<\/p>\n<p>You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your &#8220;scene&#8221; is, what you think is cool.<\/p>\n<p>Never change that.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.<\/p>\n<p>Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn&#8217;t rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale <a href=\"http:\/\/www.datingtorelating.com\/relating_to_women\" class=\"kblinker\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More about Men &raquo;\">men<\/a>&#8216;s clothing store, and ask someone about this.<\/p>\n<p>Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated.  A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.<\/p>\n<p>Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.<\/p>\n<p>Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.<\/p>\n<p>Groom yourself &#8211; nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don&#8217;t, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.<\/p>\n<p>One other thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, &#8220;yeah, I can fuck.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Use your intuition with this one. I don&#8217;t want to say too much because that&#8217;s a whole other topic.<\/p>\n<div class='uawresource'>\n<div style='italic;' class='uawabout'>About the Author:<\/div>\n<div class='uawlinks'>See what Vin has to say about the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vindicarlo.com\/mystery-pick-up-artist\/\">Mystery the Pickup Artist on VH1<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(continued from part 1)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1149,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[117],"class_list":["post-6319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging","tag-blogging"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1149"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6319\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}