{"id":3073,"date":"2008-08-13T22:52:28","date_gmt":"2008-08-14T03:52:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/2008\/08\/13\/does-it-feel-like-work-meeting-women-part-i\/"},"modified":"2008-08-13T22:52:28","modified_gmt":"2008-08-14T03:52:28","slug":"does-it-feel-like-work-meeting-women-part-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magic1host.com\/blog\/?p=3073","title":{"rendered":"Does it Feel like WORK Meeting Women? – Part I"},"content":{"rendered":"
by Vin DiCarlo<\/div>\n

Does meeting with women<\/a> seems like a WORK to you?<\/p>\n

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?<\/p>\n

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.<\/p>\n

I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.<\/p>\n

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.<\/p>\n

You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.<\/p>\n

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.<\/p>\n

YOU have to have the courage to approach.<\/p>\n

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.<\/p>\n

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men<\/a>‘s behavior than women.<\/p>\n

(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)<\/p>\n

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.<\/p>\n

… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”<\/p>\n

I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.<\/p>\n

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.<\/p>\n

I would take a break and rest!<\/p>\n

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.<\/p>\n

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD<\/p>\n

… from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!<\/p>\n

Does it make sense to you???<\/p>\n

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.<\/p>\n

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!<\/p>\n

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)<\/p>\n

But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).<\/p>\n

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym<\/p>\n

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before<\/p>\n

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.<\/p>\n

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About the Author:<\/div>\n
Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating guru, who’s highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified<\/a> and see what he has to say about VH1’s Mystery the Pick Up Artist<\/a> show.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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