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Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men’s behavior than women.

(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.

… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”

I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would take a break and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

… from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.